My wife with our Bai guide at the Bai Cultural Centre in Dali where we watched the San Dao Cha song-and-dance performance. An unmarried maiden here is addressed as Xiao Jin Hua or Little Golden Flower and not "xiao jie" which is regarded as a lady of pleasure in Yunnan. In Lijiang, the equivalent is Pan Jin Mei while in Kunming, it's Ah Si Ma.